while people who love each other
live an interesting life.
There is nothing complicated to keep their love as much as you want for yourself. The bottom line is that the love lives as long as people love each other live an interesting life. Do not you understand? Do not worry, I’ll explain everything to you.
Love heart- this is not an abstract concept. Anyway, now I’m talking about love, about how a particular concept. In my understanding of love – this is a specific relationship between two people, people who live together, are happy about the fact that they are constantly together and want to be constantly with each other. And here is how much fun they live depends on how strong their love is and how long it will be able to exist.
Naive those people who believe that love is tempered in difficulties, the suffering, and so on. Friendship – yes, it is tempered in the difficulties and hardships and difficulties verified, but not love. But I’m not talking about friendship and love, and I do not want people who love each other (husband and wife) became just friends. Friendship, as a concept, is much lower in importance to man than love.
Love alone on the difficulties and sufferings will not live long. Love breaks from alone difficulties and suffering alone, if the difficulties and suffering are not related to the fact that people who experience them, lead an interesting life. Interesting! – That’s the main thing you need to understand.
But how to live interesting? To live is interesting, you need to be inspired by this very interesting life.
Have you thought about why men and women need each other? Why do we need love, you think about it sometime? Nor what love is, but … Why do I need it this is the love?
Love is necessary to man, because only love a person can live an interesting life. All the rest, all that love below (friendship, partnership, fellowship, and other family relationships, and relationships involving parents and children, and so on) are only capable of something to make life easier, but do not make it interesting.
A lonely man can not live an interesting life. A lone man is able only to have to live a hard life, whole, rich or poor, happy or sad, but nothing more than that, and in any case interesting.
Why? Because an interesting life to be inspired, and the man himself is not able to inspire. And no one is able to inspire people to an interesting life, but he who really loves him. That’s why I argued and affirm that parents do not love their children because they are not able to inspire them to an interesting life.
Inspiration – is to increase the creative activity of the individual, high emotional high voltage spiritual and physical powers of man, without which it is impossible to create something that brings joy to the creator himself, and without it can not be an interesting life.
But inspiration does not come naturally, it brings someone else and brings the outside, and brings his love. That’s the main secret of inspiration. The woman inspires a man, who loves and who loves her, and the man the woman he loves and who loves him. And this should be done constantly.
Two loving people must constantly inspire each other to an interesting life. Inspire, not to condemn: the exploits, the suffering on the victim and the like. On the feats of suffering and sacrifice are not encouraging, and doom. But, alas, I have never met a family where the husband to his wife, inspired by an interesting life, and my wife would be inspired by the interesting life of her husband. At best, they condemn each other for all sorts of torture.
Those who love each other, people themselves, with their own hands to make your life hard labor, and his home in the real madhouse. At that today she is able to inspire her man? No matter what. It can only condemn him to overwork? Well, yes, it is the back-breaking labor, and nothing more. In the best case, the wife can reward her husband for back-breaking labor, so it is purely cleaned the apartment, great food, wash clothes, in short – arranged everyday life.
Really, dear women, do you think that this is enough to make your husband continued to love you? If you really think so, then you’re too naive.
And what better husband? Better than husbands their wives? What they can do to condemn their favorite women? The first thing that comes to mind, as it is the birth of children. And to be honest, it is both the first and second and the third. For more of a modern men simply do not have enough imagination and therefore doomed men, women bear children and give life, not inspired by an interesting life.
What’s the problem here? The answer is obvious, neither men nor women are not aware that such an interesting life, do not know and, therefore, unable to inspire each other on this very interesting life. And after all, what is most annoying is something they do not know and do not want to know what the “interesting life.” Here’s what a “hard life” they know, but what is “interesting life” … Alas.
I watched and watch a lot of couples who lead busy, very, very difficult life, skrashivaya her by the children at school or in college, alcohol and overeating holiday on some sea and leaving for a weekend at the cottage, and so on and so like. I do not dare to say to people who are already together for over twenty-five years that they do not like each other, they drove each other as they are driving horses careless and cruel masters. But I can see how much they are tired, so tired, that is not the uptake of what it is they are tired. And talk with people about what their life is simply not interesting at times is useless.
Too much has been accumulated over the years of malice, despair, frustration and so on, that people have ceased to hope for something good. All that they can say to each other, so it’s – patience sweet, cute or patience. They have ceased to love each other very, very long time. They long ago in relation to each other the most common friends. Good, true, but, alas, just friends.
“Hold on honey, will be over soon. Hold on baby, come soon suffer. A little more, a little more, a little left, a little string up and … we can … ”
How to make love never never left us? Can people in more than fifty years and love each other as well as to eighteen? But just love to love does not turn into pity for the sick person.
Why am I talking about compassion? Yes, because by the age of fifty men and women (mostly) become disabled. All that they have managed to condemn each other, so it’s a life that both of them turned to the disabled.
Fifty years – that’s an understatement. Most become disabled before.
Does not it make you stop and think? Think about how you live and what you inspire that person whom you love? Or are you satisfied with it?